Becoming the wife of an oligarch or millionaire, living luxuriously and not denying yourself anything is the dream of many Muscovites and provincial girls. Which women do rich men prefer, and which ones do they avoid? To better understand this issue, it is enough to draw up a psychological portrait of the oligarch, understand his lifestyle and worldview. How to become a millionaire's wife and what qualities are important to have?
Psychology of a rich man
If you don't know how to meet a millionaire For a serious relationship, it is first of all important to understand his psychology. The true value for a man is not money at all. Welfare makes it possible to feel power, raise worthy heirs, assert oneself, be valuable, loved, and needed. If a man lacks something in the family, he will certainly look for it on the side. Wealthy men who have a high status in society, despite the increased attention women pay to them, feel lonely.
They are forced to spend a lot of time on self-realization, solving business issues or building a career. Millionaires begin to look for a spouse only in mature age(after 35-40 years). It is during this period that they think about what kind of girl will become a suitable wife with whom he will feel happy and confident. Many girls are desperately fighting for their heart, so they have studied their habits and sense the “hunters” a mile away.
Girl's appearance
How to meet a rich man and charm him at first sight? A rich man values his image, so he chooses young and beautiful girls, which serve as another way for him to assert himself in society. A wife does not have to be able to cook or do housework, since there are servants for this. However, the wife must be wise enough, appreciate and respect her man, and be able to create the necessary psychological microclimate in the house.
Confident men, spoiled by female attention, believe that they are worthy of the first beauties, which is why they strive to choose girls of model appearance and perfectly groomed. A beautiful girl accompanying a wealthy man is a complement to his presentable image, a way to assert himself in the eyes of friends, colleagues, and business partners.
Attitude towards children
Wealthy men have much more opportunities to give birth and raise heirs. This is why a future wife should want to have children. You need to be prepared for the fact that it will be the woman who will have to raise the children, since the husband will be busy all the time.
The wife of a rich man should not strive to build a career and spend too much time on self-realization. She must have free time to devote to her beloved husband, children, take care of herself, and attend social events.
Character and temperament
The character must be stress-resistant, balanced, calm. A quiet and wise woman will never fight for leadership in the family, throw hysterics, or demonstrate her intellectual superiority.
The desire for self-development
To prevent relationships from developing into everyday relationships, a woman must engage in self-development, do what brings her pleasure and allows her to realize her talents and abilities, only in this case will she feel happy. It is precisely such self-sufficient, self-confident, versatile women who can support a dialogue with deep inner content that wealthy men dream of.
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December 15, 2014
I want to start the conversation by saying right away: “I support the desires of many women - to find a successful and rich man as a life partner.”
This is a completely natural desire of a woman who wants to raise children, run a home, and not worry about where to get money for it. Don’t worry about where to get money for a good education for your children, how to make your home cozy and beautiful without cutting out a penny from the family budget. I understand a woman’s desire not to be torn between making money and fulfilling the main female role, namely: to be a WOMAN and WIFE.
You can, of course, start a family with a man who is kind, good, caring, but not pushy, who does not know how to earn money and provide for a family. And, of course, you can be happy with him. Simply understanding that he cannot cope with the function of providing for the family alone, and this function will also fall on your shoulders.
Yes, a woman wants to lean on the strong shoulder of a man, wants to give her children all the best that is possible, and she herself wants to get from life what a man can give her: security, confidence in the future, support and support. And not only does he want to, but he has every right. And all this can be given to her by a rich, strong and successful man.
But for most sweet, kind, good, caring and faithful women, this dream will never come true. Why? Now you'll find out.
Today I want to reveal to you 5 reasons why it will not come true.
Reason #1. Your beliefs
I will list these beliefs for you, and you choose those that you have.
Let's start with the most common ones.
The rich and successful were taken apart when they were puppies. At my age, I have nothing left to catch. And it doesn’t matter whether you are 30 or 50 years old.
I have a completely unmodel appearance; rich people don’t marry people like me. Although you have seen more than once that rich men have wives of very different builds.
I am completely ordinary and not created for happiness. My destiny is poverty and hard work. But you can't argue with fate. So don’t argue, be patient, it’s fate.
Rich men don't respect their wives and always cheat on them. And the poor are all, as one, just an example of loyalty and decency?
Rich men are capricious, they have too many demands on their wife, and it is difficult to please him. It’s probably easier to please a poor drunkard by simply giving money for drinks.
You can find many more such thoughts and beliefs. I suggest that in the comments under this post you write exactly your beliefs about rich and successful men and about yourself.
Reason #3. Your ability to take action
The result of erroneous beliefs very often is absolute inaction. Well, for example, here’s an interesting thought: it is the man who must take the initiative, he himself must find me.
A man may have to, but for this it would not hurt him, at least to begin with, to find out about your existence. And for this, it is you who must appear in those places where he happens.
But if this belief is used precisely to justify yourself and do nothing, then you will never meet a successful and rich man, just as he will never meet you.
Reason #3. Confidence in one's own infallibility
It looks something like this: I am not a woman of easy virtue, to wear sexy clothes, put on makeup and generally take care of my appearance. Only corrupt women behave this way. And I'm not going to sell myself. I am decent and will remain so.
This also includes the confidence that flirting and making advances is also only for prostitutes, and I’m not like that. And my mother said that everyone condemns such women. So I'll sit and wait. And if I look like a gray mouse, my man will see me like that too.
With this approach, you can do nothing, but just sit and wait. Maybe someday you will sit and wait for someone. I know a lot of people like that, sitting and waiting, who are absolutely sure that they are doing everything right, and are not lucky because in modern life no one needs decent women. Only bitches are valuable.
Reason #4. Inflated expectations
I often say that you cannot marry a panda and get a tiger as your husband. You need to understand that not all men are capable of being successful and rich, even if they have the makings, beginnings and opportunities.
If you see a man over 30 years old who hasn’t achieved anything in life, and isn’t really trying, don’t even hope that as soon as he gets married, he’ll change that way right away. Maybe it will change, but this is far from a fact.
Of course, there is an opinion that behind a successful man there is always a wise woman, but this wise woman is definitely not you. Not you, if you cannot recognize in a man the ability to act, the desire to create success. It is impossible to make someone move who does not understand how to do it at all.
That is why do not expect that marriage in itself will make a man responsible, active, successful and businesslike. If a man doesn’t have this, then he doesn’t. He has the right to be what he wants or can be. And you be careful and perspicacious if you don’t want to spend best years life for someone unknown.
Reason #5. Haste
It’s time for me to get married, if I go through too many things, I’ll be left alone. We must take what they give. And it’s even cooler - he can endure it and fall in love, even though he doesn’t drink, and that’s happiness.
And it doesn’t matter at all that with such a reasonable approach, divorce and loneliness await you in any case. Even after 20 years. There is no other way. It is impossible to live with a person you don’t love, whose life values you don’t like. And which you have to endure, just not to be left alone.
Although you can experiment. Maybe you can do it. True, this will be a lifelong experiment. But if you agree, it’s your right to experiment.
These are the thoughts about rich and successful men, although rather these are thoughts about you, dear women. About your life and what it should be. I hope you understand that everything depends on you. And not from parents who raised them incorrectly, not from fate or karma, not from men who, for the most part, are..., oh, let’s not talk about the bad.
And since everything depends on YOU, then act. Look for opportunities and ways. Understand yourself and your desires. I am sure that if you have a real desire and energy, if you are ready to act, you will succeed. And I will help you on this exciting path.
I know that each of you has your own thoughts on this matter. You may or may not agree with me. Write in the comments, let's discuss.
And I invite those who want to build a harmonious relationship with a successful and wealthy man to my trainings.
A question that torments many guys: “Why do girls choose rich men?” And you can be offended as much as you like by your friends who want the guy to be wealthy, consider them materialistic and greedy, think that they don’t need anything other than money, but this is far from the case. Yes, there are girls who have only one thought in their minds: “Money!”, and for the sake of it they are ready to do anything. But if we talk about most girls, then even if they say that it doesn’t matter to them where and how to live, and that “it’s heaven in the hut with a sweetheart,” this is not entirely true. But why? You sit there, so handsome, creative, not like everyone else, waiting for your mother to cook cutlets, and you don’t understand why these “mercantile women” are not taken in by your qualities and constantly remind you of your financial insolvency. We will reveal the essence of the problem. And yes, in this article you will read banal things that are nothing new, but this is an accurate definition of why girls prefer wealthy guys.
How is it in nature?
Let's start with the simplest thing, namely the animal world. A successful male is one who brings prey, protects his flock from enemies - in general, does everything to protect his female or females and offspring from the outside world. How do females determine that a male is successful? Firstly, by its color, mane, mustache, that is, by general characteristics. Secondly, in terms of behavior. The alpha male behaves boldly, as if going towards the goal. Thirdly, in terms of physical strength. A weak male is a dead male. Now replace the mane and tail with a beautiful suit, and physical strength with intelligence and wealth, and you will get a typical successful man, whom many girls hang themselves on.
...and in fairy tales?
Since childhood, girls love stories with a happy ending. In such fairy tales, a rich man, most often of royal blood, acts as a protector, a patron, a reliable character who will save you from any trouble, give you a long happy life, and behind whom the girl will be like behind a stone wall. A more modern version is the famous film “Pretty Woman”. This is a very clear indicator of all of the above. Well, the most new fairy tale on this topic - “50 shades”. Having seen enough stories like this, most girls begin to think that fairy tales and films contain the whole essence of the universe, universal wisdom, and they consciously fly, like fireflies, into the fire. Whether it turns out to be true or fiction is another matter.
Confidence in the future
A wealthy man is not only a lot of money, but also an indicator that he is a purposeful person. Wealthy man moves forward, stepping over other people's heads, makes a career, becomes famous. The girl is sure that in the future it will be at least the same as now, and perhaps even better. And now think logically, who will she choose: the person with whom she feels like behind a stone wall, or the one who only talks about how cool he is and how he is not appreciated, sitting on a worn-out chair?
The same applies to offspring. Despite the fact that nowadays more and more childfree people are appearing, many girls cannot imagine their life without children. And since children are considered the main thing in the family, all resources go to their well-being. First of all, an ordinary girl from our country, looking at a successful man, sees in him someone who will provide a comfortable life for their children.
What happens after the sexual revolution?
And although the sexual revolution took place almost fifty years ago, only distant waves reach our country. Until now, many Russian women look at rich men only from the positions described above, namely from the position of confidence in the future. In the West, many girls are drawn to wealthy men, often for another reason: common interests or mentoring. Being next to a successful man, a girl receives an incentive to develop and reach the same heights. A rich person is perceived as an interesting interlocutor with whom you can talk about many topics. Of course, the above reasons do not disappear, but they fade into the background, giving way to higher impulses.
When you don’t want to go through mandatory rituals
Since we live in capitalist conditions, many girls understand that beauty and sexuality are also an element of commodity-money relations. And there's nothing wrong with that. At least these girls act honestly and offer a kind of barter, where in exchange for their attention, men provide them with a comfortable life. And no, this should not be confused with prostitution. Prostitution is an offer of only sexual services, while kept women - let's be honest with each other - are a beautiful addition to the image of a successful man. But since it is not easy for such girls to find a rich man in real life, they register in various services. An example of such a service is “. 90% of the female audience are girls from 18 to 35 years old, and the database is updated daily with more than 1,000 new registrations. The site presents only real profiles of girls, and each one is verified manually, for which the girl must take a selfie with a certain gesture, which JuliaDates employees will show her. This eliminates the appearance of fakes. The site ensures 100% confidentiality. A man can not upload his photos at all, but simply exchange data with the girl he likes and continue communicating on Viber or WhatsApp.
Such services are useful for both kept women and rich men, where the former have the opportunity to find sponsors who will provide them with a comfortable life, and the latter find a beautiful girl who is ready, if not for everything, then for a lot for the sake of her knight in white armor.
I want to get married, and not just... My future husband should be rich, successful, respectable in appearance, positive in all his habits and actions, strong physically and spiritually... And do you dream about this? Surely, the portrait of the chosen one does not end with the listed qualities; there are still a bunch of “golden” adjectives in stock. The only question is: “Does such a man need you?” Can you give an answer? Experts from TM “Placent Formula” and “Lanier” propose to work together to find the answer and figure out what kind of woman a rich and successful groom really needs?
The purpose of any relationship is to give something and gain something. If a man gives his chosen one a position in society, status, fame, money, spiritual development, what can she offer him in this case?
I'm so melting: are your qualities unique?
“A slender figure, attractive appearance, education (1-2 or more degrees!), own real estate, successful job” is the answer of many women. Do you think this is enough? Is what you offer your successful chosen one unique?
About beauty if we say, the Slavs have plenty of such goodness. In a crowded place, on the street, such a man is unlikely to notice you among other equally beautiful girls.
About a slim figure The same thing can be said about beautiful appearance: for any reason, there will be competitors with an even more spectacular figure.
About education we can immediately say that this will not surprise anyone today. There are many beautiful women, doctors of science, with three or more degrees, smart and smart, but still lonely.
About sexuality, the ability to be a super-lover also has its “but”. Can't this be done by representatives of the most ancient profession?
And why should an ideal man choose you? Try to analyze everything without offense for your own good! List out loud or write down on a piece of paper the qualities that you think might interest a rich and successful man:
- Can you listen with interest?
- Do you appreciate, see and admire the good qualities of a man?
- Are you his muse and inspiration?
- Do you always put the man in charge and leave the last word to him?
- Always positive, in a great mood no matter what?
- Do you know how to relax a man and create an incredibly comfortable and cozy atmosphere in the house?
- Do you cook deliciously, that you have no equal in this art?
- Are you glowing with happiness, do you know how to enjoy everything?
- Do you accept a man as he is, with all his shortcomings?
- Do you trust your chosen one and follow him impeccably in everything?
If you count at least 5 positive answers to the above questions, then you are truly a unique woman! IN modern world Such ladies, with such qualities and skills, are very rare. And this is exactly the kind of woman that a rich and successful man will notice!
If you offer only external qualities and sexuality, do not expect a real relationship with the soul in return. In exchange for a body, you will receive an identical one - you will simply be used as a beautiful thing, and nothing more! If you offer yourself as smart and educated, do not expect romance, tenderness, care and love in such a relationship. In this case, you are “doomed” to be a colleague, friend, business partner.
Marrying a Loving and Gentle Millionaire: An Exercise to Identify Your Blind Spots
If you sincerely want to build a happy family life hand in hand with an ideal, successful, rich man, you need to honestly identify your “blind” spots. To do this, do the following exercise: take a pen and a piece of paper, and describe your chosen one, write 20 qualities not related to appearance that you see in him, visually imagine him and, as it were, observe from the outside:
- his profession, position held;
- how he spends his time, what places he likes to visit;
- what kind of friends does he have?
- his behavior with women;
- relationships with parents, etc.
At the same time, you must feel it, allow your body and subconscious to accept masculine energy, be filled with it, feel the masculine vibrations. After that, through the eyes of this man, imagine meeting yourself. See his attitude towards you: are you attracted to him? what does he think about you? what is missing to interest him?
Be attentive to your subconscious, and be sure to write down everything you “hear” on a piece of paper. This technique allows you to meet your inner woman with your inner man. And to make a couple, they both should be honest! When you do the exercise, return to your female body again.
You can see that the man passed by, left you on the street, and was not interested. Why? And it’s not all about the figure, thin waist and long legs. Many men do not like women’s excessive emotionality, lack of grace, lack of self-confidence, nervousness, and unkemptness. From this practice you will also understand what kind of man you will be in family life comfortable, maybe even with someone who is on your level, and with whom together you can develop spiritually and achieve other benefits of the Universe, including material prosperity.
It happens that a woman receives marriage proposals, and unknowingly rejects her own happiness, since the man’s status or earnings are lower than hers. But in fact, it was with her that he would become the successful and rich woman she dreams of. The question is: will the Universe offer her such a gift again?
The mistake of many ex-brides is to focus their attention on external data, and not on feminine qualities that will lead to happy life. And then such beauties ask and complain: “Why am I so grown up and lonely?”
Ideal woman for ideal man: about important qualities
So, what are these qualities of a happy ideal woman?
- Positive attitude
- Self-sufficiency
- An inexhaustible feeling of gratitude
- The ability to see good qualities in people
- Loving life
- Follow your goals
- Enjoy yourself and the flow of life
- Communicate without reproaches or complaints
- Emphasize your strengths
- Where you need to remain silent
- Don't judge or discuss
It is precisely such a woman that successful men are looking for: with the inner potential of love and a high level of self-esteem.
Willingness to accept the ideal man into your life
Sometimes our “I want” is not enough to make a desire come true. In fact, maybe at this period of your life you are not ready for a relationship with such a man, so the Universe, for your own good, does not provide the opportunity to meet him. This is comparable to the fact that you want to ride a horse, and the Instructor chooses a horse according to your abilities and character. But he doesn’t suit you, because you want to ride the Arabian Handsome, the Olympic champion. And at this moment you don’t think that you won’t be able to curb his temper, you won’t be able to manage correctly. The result could be tragedy, injury...
So in life, if a woman gets a successful man, but she is not ready for this, her life turns into a real hell. And expensive gifts and going out are no longer pleasing. She is tormented by a constant feeling of jealousy and fear that he will leave her. With this behavior, she gradually cools the man’s feelings and kills her value.
Just as a horse feels a confident jockey next to him, so a man feels self-sufficient, a real woman worthy of him! Therefore, in your choice of a man, you should be adequate and “not take aim” at someone for whom you are not yet ready.
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Every girl dreams of having a life partner next to her who will be reliable, successful, smart, generous and cheerful. But not every potential bride gets such a set of qualities in one bottle. Why? Find out from this article which women successful men choose as their wives.
So, let's look at the personal qualities of women that successful men like:
1. Confidence
This quality in a woman is highly valued by men who are confident in themselves, their strengths and their future. Every strong man wants a woman next to him who knows what she is worth, without complexes and stiffness. If a woman is not confident in herself, then she cannot be confident in her man - and such unions are doomed to failure.
2. Sense of humor
Strong and successful people have a sense of humor, and such men need to have a person nearby who is able to understand them and be on the same wavelength. So if you want to marry a successful man, train your sense of humor.
3. Femininity
This is the first quality that attracts the attention of all men, without exception. Femininity is real, coming from within, and not ostentatious, which is expressed in clothes and hairstyle. Femininity is more than just external signs- this is the structure of the soul.
4. Optimism
A man striving for success simply cannot be a pessimist, and this is exactly the kind of life partner he will choose for himself. Faith in the future, the ability to see only the good side in everything - this inspires a man and helps him in his realization.
5. Well-groomed appearance
When talking about beauty, each person means something different, so natural data is not the main thing. What is important is how a girl manages what nature has given her - her body. You can run it to such an extent that your own reflection in the mirror will not please you, but then don’t expect to make not just a successful man, but any man in general, fall in love with you. Men love with their eyes - and this is a fact, because the first thing they pay attention to is appearance. A successful man chooses the best for himself, and a woman is no exception.
6. Sincerity
None of the men wants to have a person with a double bottom next to him. Successful men treat their family as the home front to which they return after daily battles for best place under the sun. A woman who is next to a strong man cannot be unsincere, as he will notice it very quickly. One of the strengths of successful men is that they are amazing judges of people.
7. Willingness to trust
Men value trust in women and the ability to completely put the situation into the hands of the strong. A man whom a woman blindly trusts simply cannot let her down. Some women, even saying that they trust, still do not stop worrying and worrying, trying to take part. This insults a man and tramples his sense of dignity. This is how losers are born.
8. Caring
Many men who achieve great victories in the professional field or in business are completely unsuited to solving small everyday problems. Therefore, such men prefer to have a woman nearby who can take care of them.
9. Character
There is a stereotypical opinion - next to every strong man there is always some beautiful doll who constantly assents to him and agrees in everything. No, that's not true. In fact, it is important for a man to have a personality next to him, and not just a beautiful appearance, which will get boring very quickly.
10. Kindness
The ability to sympathize, forgive, show kindness - we can observe all these qualities in women of great men who quite often engage in charity work. The kindness and gentleness of a woman brings balance to a man’s life and equalizes it.
